Oh, it’s you. It’s been awhile since you’ve poked your head around here. I can’t say that I’ve missed you. Actually, I greatly appreciate the time you spend away. It hasn’t quite been long enough.
I don’t love the way you make me feel ashamed of who I am, the way you remind me of every single flaw. I don’t like it when you pick the areas you know are most tender, and you push your finger there, like testing the soreness of a bruise. You know just where to touch to get the most response.
I know your voice, but it isn’t a welcome one. It doesn’t bring me pleasure. It’s a droning, grating sound that I can hear from anywhere in the house, anywhere in the world- like it follows me around from place to place. “You aren’t enough. You are terrible at this. You aren’t any good at that.” Poke after poke, you find every tender vulnerable spot, and you touch each one. Clearly enjoying the writhing that you cause.
But you don’t get to stay. Your voice isn’t the loudest; your words aren’t even entirely true. I’m not good at everything, but I am good. And the areas that trip me up, I don’t have to let them define me. And I surely don’t have to let YOU define me.
So I cry for a bit over the unkind things you say. I even believe them for awhile. But then I am reminded that I am so much more than how you see me. I am brave and strong and very loving. I am the daughter of a king; I am chosen and I am loved. The things you pick on me about are temporal; they might matter for awhile, but in the end, they don’t amount to much. But that’s what you want. You want to divert my attention from the eternal, from the meaningful and the powerful. I’ll admit, you had me for a bit. Held tight in your grasp, you sneaky devil.
But your time here is up. You’ll need to be moving on. I’ve got things to do and people to love and a Lord to serve. So, and I do mean to be rude as to not give you the impression you should return quickly, I just want to say, your time is up and you are not welcome here!!